What's wrong with feminine? It's got nothing to do with that. That's not the problem. It's just weak. If the only reason you're not killing a guy is because you're a wuss and you can't take a life or whatever, that's about as far from strong as you can get.

But not killing a person who really deserves to die 'cause you decide they're not worth your effort is pretty strong, I guess. I'd really prefer to kill 'em, though.